How Dancing with Dementia became a weekly lifeline for 120 individuals

The onset of the pandemic forced them to rethink their approach.

Unable to host large gatherings, the group came together and initiated a meal project, delivering food to individuals in need.

This small act became a lifeline for those sheltering from the world, providing a moment of connection and support in the face of isolation.

Of course, most people with dementia were deemed vulnerable, so had to shield.

Lesley continued: “Caring for someone with dementia amid a pandemic-induced isolation was an ordeal in itself.

“The absence of external support and the strict adherence to safety measures by my brother-in-law made the situation even more challenging.

“Witnessing the toll it took on both of them, I decided to take action. That’s when the meal project was born—an initiative to ensure that at least someone was checking in regularly, offering a lifeline through a warm meal and a friendly face.

“Beyond the meals, we forged connections through a unique club, where groups of ten individuals would regularly call and support each other, fostering a sense of camaraderie.

“To enhance their experience, we distributed MP3 players, CDs, and even the classic record players, delivering the joy of music to their doorsteps. As the pandemic waned, we sought to revive the support system that had once meant so much to my sister.

“Humphrey Booth Resource Centre, a place my sister frequented for singing with dementia, became the cornerstone of our efforts.

“The camaraderie and understanding amongst the attendees provided unparalleled support, and it was something I couldn’t bear to let go of when the original coordinator, June, decided not to resume post-pandemic.

“With the blessing of the trustees, we took on the responsibility, expanding from one monthly event to a weekly Wednesday morning gathering.”

Fuelled by the need for more space and resources, they organised fundraising events and applied for grants.

Wednesday sessions consistently draw 75 to 80 attendees, and some of the events draw as many as 120.

The importance of these events goes beyond mere social gatherings; they offer a sense of security and joy, akin to a Friday night out with friends, but in the comforting light of day

Recognising the evolving desires of our community, we consulted with the participants, leading to the introduction of day trips and meals out.

These excursions, be it to Blackpool, Skipton Market, or the local chippy on Salford Precinct, have become cherished opportunities for reminiscence, laughter, and community bonding.

The Challenges of Caring for Someone With Dementia

Navigating the challenges of caring for someone with dementia is an intense, around-the-clock responsibility.

It requires a level of dedication akin to a professional job, yet often undertaken without formal training.

Carers, driven purely by love and gut instinct, find solace and understanding in connecting with others facing similar journeys.

Lesley continued: “Within our community at Dancing With Dementia, every trustee and volunteer has traversed their unique dementia path.

“This shared experience ensures that newcomers are met with empathy and a deep understanding of the challenges they face.

“Dementia manifests differently for each individual, and the community provides a safe space for diverse stories, such as my sister’s belief, at 86, that she was pregnant and the subsequent support offered to ease her anxiety.

“Recognising the importance of professional training for carers, we collaborate with Age UK to provide essential programs.

“These initiatives cover various aspects, from navigating conversations to understanding the nuances of communication without unintentionally finishing sentences for those with dementia.

“Age UK generously offers this training free of charge, equipping carers with the tools they need to provide the best support.

“A testament to this is the overwhelming response to our call for teddy bears to comfort dementia patients in A&E units, receiving nearly 300 teddies.

“We had so many we didn’t know what do with them!

The Grand Palais in Swinton

Lesley continued: “Visitors often share heartwarming tales, like that of a woman whose first date with her husband unfolded in the very same cinema (now Grand Palais Ballroom) back in 1948.

“We’re trying to get people to share their memories or jog something within them with these events.”

The Grand Palais Ballroom has served as a cultural hub for the community, witnessing the debut gigs of emerging artists in the ’60s and ’70s.

“Over the years, it has accumulated not just historical significance but a treasure trove of memories. These anecdotes become catalysts for conversations in our community, crucial for stimulating the minds of those living with dementia and fostering new positive memories for carers.

“The iconic building, with its connections to the past, now plays a pivotal role in creating present-day joy.”

Looking ahead, their plans involve expanding to more venues to meet the growing demand for our services.

While the logistics and financing pose challenges, the increasing openness to supporting people with dementia is encouraging.

The surge in awareness, particularly due to celebrities acknowledging their dementia diagnoses, bodes well for their mission.

Our efforts aim not only to provide a haven for those already diagnosed but also to proactively combat the effects of isolation and loneliness.

To finish, Lesley said: “The journey is deeply personal for us, driven by a collective commitment to channel grief into positive energy.

“As volunteers, every donation we receive goes back into the cause, benefitting care homes, hospital wards, and individuals still living at home.

“We’re dedicated to this cause, and the satisfaction derived from making a positive impact fuels our resolve to continue this meaningful journey.”

In essence, Dancing With Dementia is not just a community—it’s a showcase of the enduring power of love, shared memories, and the resilience of the human spirit in the face of challenges.

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